Heh, honestly, it's probably not as bad as you're making it out to be. You probably want it 3 times a day, and she only wants it 2 times. As for women not being as horney as men, i've been with women who wanted much more than I have, and even had to fake orgazms just to get them to leave me alone sometimes(this is not bullshit, I am very seirous).
The thing is, you can't classify it by men or women, that's too general, people are different.
What I would say to try, is making it special each and every time. Get quickies out of your head. Think that if you're going to do it, you're going the whole 9 yards. Dinner, compliments, forplay, then sex. If you really want to wig her out though, do everything I just said, but stop at the forplay and just cuddle for the night. The way you do that is, you get yourself worked up with her to the point that it'd take you 30 seconds pretty much to jerk off, go in the bathroom and handle it real fast, go back out and claim you just want to be with her. You'll be all relaxed cause you just took care of yourself in the bathroom, so you'll easily just cuddle.
Now she'll take this quite well, and it can only do good for your relationship. Sometimes people just want to feel like they are wanted as a person, and not as a vagina or a dick.
Just try that. Think that every time you're going to get it on, it's going to be for the whole 9. This will help to train yourself to stop thinking you could bend her over that counter top she's making that sandwich on, and doggy style it and be done in time for some AA matches, lol.
Seriously though, just slowing shit down and taking it to a different level that includes sex.
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